Perfect Dating Places in Negros

Negros Occidental is not only a province filled with smiling people. It's also an island with lots of popular tourists spots. Some of these most-flocked places are also perfect venues for special and romantic dates. So, if you're looking for places where you can spend some time with your loved one or you just want to be free from the hustle and bustle of the city, these places are the ones you should go to.

NATURE'S VILLAGE in Talisay City

I have to be honest! This place really proved that "first impressions are sometimes wrong". At first, I thought the place was "so-so". Nothing special. I did not know there were so many things I haven't seen yet. What really won my heart in this resort is it's peacefulness, cleanliness and it's really "a breath of fresh air". Their lawns are so wide and so green. Really refreshing to look at. If you and your date are more of the "peace-and-quiet" side, Nature's Village is the place for you.

My best friend and I at the entrance of the resort. 

The lobby of the resort's hotel. The lobby itself IS an attraction because of its beautiful decorations that are (brace yourself) all recycled materials. Yep. I did not believe that at first but it's true.

The resort's unique restaurant. What's nice about this place? It's just so relaxing here. There's just something in its ambiance that's just so calming. The place's not as noisy as other restaurants. This is perfect for a night of fancy dinner. :)

The chapel.

The mud house. Warning: Don't be fooled by the exterior!!! Okay, so this little cutie patootie hut made me believe in love at first sight. It was different from other rooms you'll find. It's warm, cozy, and just beautiful. I decided not to put pictures of the inside so you'll be curious and see for yourselves. :P. This mud house in Nature's is the first ever in the Philippines. The makers of this are definitely creative and innovative. I can ramble about everything nice about this mud house but I shall stop now. :)

Entrance to the mud house. Yes, people, it is really made of mud. As in M-U-D. Lutak, putik. :)).

There is beauty all around when there's green. :). This place is A+ if you and your date enjoy strolling, enjoying the fresh air or just sitting on the grass talking about the future. :)

THE RUINS in (again) Talisay City

Seems like every great place is in Talisay, huh? :). Well, I guess the place is just so blessed. If you and your date like to enjoy a little history after a stroll in a nature resort, I have good news. They're just, like, 7 kilometers away from each other. :)

"The Ruins" is considered as the "Taj Mahal" of Negros Occidental. This magnificent house was built by the owner for his first wife. The house is made of hard wood and its walls are strengthened by egg whites. The house was set to fire on purpose because the USAFFE did not want it to become a hide-out of the Japanese during World War 2. It took 3 days to burn because of the hard wood materials used. Burnt and all, The Ruins is still lovely and breathtaking not only because of its design but also because of the history that embraces it.

The place is extra beautiful because of the green green grass. :)

Are you in for some pseudo-pool experience? :)

The fountain. 

Our Kalesa ride. :). 

Simply heart-stopping, isn't it? Hint hint: The tour guide told us the best time to visit The Ruins is around 4:30-5:30 P.M. He said The Ruins has a magic of its own. When the sunset's rays hit the walls, the house turns gold. :) My best friend and I decided that The Ruins is one of the perfect places to pop "the question". :) Yes, we're hopeless romantics. :)

So, what are you waiting for? Explore Negros' romantic spots and fall in love. :D

The Girls I Love

(L to R: Mayet, Mahal, Me, Janice and Bambi)

These girls are amazing. I always have lots of funny and wonderful moments with them.

They're all beautiful, smart and virtuous. :)

I'm so happy to have met them in my life. :)

How to Appear Calm In Front of your Crush

I'm no longer a teenager but I very much enjoy the feeling of having a crush. It is AMAZING. You blush all the time, you smile more often and most of the time, you catch yourself singing love songs. It's funny  when you realize that your crush is giving you pterodactyls without him even knowing it.

Based on my observation (and I don't know an explanation for this), when someone sees his/her crush, an "ultra sugar rush" effect occurs. That person becomes giggly, giddy and (hello, Giulia) talkative. Most of us, especially girls, do not want our crush to noticed that we like him/her. How should we act in order   to appear nonchalant?

1.) Tell yourself beforehand to be calm if ever he/she appears.

By doing so, you allow yourself to keep your emotions in check. Take deep breaths and smile to keep your heart from racing so fast and to avoid all the adrenaline rush that can be caused by his/her presence.

2.) Treat him like an ordinary friend.

Don't avoid him. You'll only make things awkward for both of you. Interact with him like how you would do with common friends. Avoiding him would only make him think "Is there something here?"

3.) Refrain from whispering with friends when he/she is around.

Girls are more guilty of this. Yes, girls. This also involves all the giggling and looking his way. Doing these things simply cause the "crush alarm" to go "active mode". :)

4.) If he's around, be busy with something.

 Doing something while he's around can distract you from doing things caused by the "ultra sugar rush" effect. Plus, he'll be more interested with someone who does not throw secret glances at him most of the time.

5.) Talk to him.

This is my favorite thing to do. This is one of the most effective ways to break the ice between you and your crush. Be interested with what he's saying and be a good listener. Knowing him better will lessen the awkwardness between you and him. (Another advantage: he may get to spend more time with you if he realizes that you're someone he can talk to any time. :) )

Having crushes is fun. Enjoy it in the right way by saying "bye bye" to the "awkward-oh-my-gosh-he-needs-to-notice-me" moments caused by the "ultra sugar rush" effect. ;)

What to Do While Waiting For Mr. Right

It is every girl's dream to meet Mr. Right and to be married to him and to live happily ever after.

I, too, dream of that.

I grew up a Disney Kid and yes, I was fed by ideas that every girl has her Prince Charming that will one day sweep her off her feet. I still believe that. I really believe that. However, unlike the Disney Princessess, I did not have a prince when I was 16. Waiting, undeniably, is hard.

But cheer up! That doesn't mean you just have to mope around and complain. You are young and vibrant. You have lots of time to prepare to be the "princess" every "prince charming" wants. While he's still not around, have fun and develop yourself.

Here are some few things you need to do while you wait for him.

1.) Develop a deep love for the Lord.

You should love Him above everything else. There's a particular quote that I like that says "A girl's heart should be so hidden in God that a guy needs to search for Him first before finding her." Develop your love for Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ. Theirs is a deep unconditional love. There will be moments that you would feel alone and unwanted but if you have strengthened their love towards Them, you will be "encircled" in Their arms of mercy. Also, it is believed that "light attracts light". If you love Them above everything else, you will surely attract someone who also feels the same way.

2.) Develop a deep love for yourself.

I have always loved my Mama's advices to me. She would always tell me "You need to love yourself first before you love someone." You cannot fully love another if your own love cup is empty. When you learn to love yourself, you can give love in a healthy way and not be clingy. You will be confident. You will not allow yourself to be a "martyr". When a guy sees that you know how to also take care of yourself, he will develop respect towards you and will love you more.

3.) Do things that will increase your "likeability".

Join non-profit organizations, write in a school paper, volunteer for community service, start projects or organize events. Be interesting. My Papa would always tell me "Guys are not interested with girls who will talk about lipstick for two hours." I know it's hard not to blabber about it sometimes. Believe me, I love make-up and shopping, too. What you need is to enrich your mind. Be updated with current affairs, love the classics, be creative in your own way and always be someone who can be "engaging" in conversations. Practice listening skills. Be friendly. Smile always. :). You will leave guys wondering "Dang, that girl's something else!"

4.) Develop the traits that you want your future "Prince Charming" to have.

A great friend of mine had coined this quote "If you want to marry a King, be a Queen". He also told us what his mother said to him: "If you want to have a spouse with those amazing qualities, you must first develop them first or else, why would she want you?" That's very true. I said earlier that "light attracts light". While waiting for your "Prince Charming", take the time to develop the qualities that you want him to have. When he surprisingly appears, you will be ready to win him. :)

5.) PRAY for him. :)

It's said in the scriptures "Ask and it shall be given unto you." When the Lord says that, He means business and He is serious. List down all the things you want in a guy and earnestly pray for it. However, you have to make sure it is according to His will. If He sees it fit to His plan, He will give him to you. In fact, someone even better. Trust me! He will. :)

Ladies are wonderful beings. You might be waiting now but if you know how to prepare, you will find him. You definitely will. :)

"Hi! What's your name?"

Oh, I'm Giulia Noelle Guanzon Nobleza.

Them: That's such a weird name.

SARAH G!

I don't know but my classmates have been calling me Sarah G. lately.

I sent a text 2 days ago about how I look up to Sarah Geronimo and how unbelievably gifted she is. She's a good dancer, a brilliant singer, an actress, a role model, a speaker and a very kind person.

They all replied "Well, she's just like you!"

Maybe this is the reason why they've been calling me "Sarah G." I don't feel that I deserve that,though. Hahaha. :))

Earthquake and the fear it just awoke.

My hands are shaking as I write.

That Earthquake just proved something. I am afraid to die. I am afraid to die without my family by my side. I am afraid to see death. 

The time is at hand, that I know. We need to prepare more.