For me, the real "power to wow" does not only settle for skin deep factors. No. It's more than that. It's all about one person's over-all personality, one person's bearing. Here are some things that can boost your "power to wow". :)
1.) Feed your mind.
Girls, don't be someone who only talks about shopping, shoes, bags, clothes, make up and boys boys boys. Guys, don't be proud of the fact that you can master the language of DoTA and Counter Strike (girls aren't really into blood and shooting and killing).
Be educated. Choose to be smart. Love learning. Thirst for knowledge. Read about various topics from health to politics. Isn't it amazing when you can relate to a certain topic one person is talking about? That person will definitely say "Wow, this person has a bright mind".
Read good books. Increase your vocabulary. There's a popular saying that goes like this: "Good grammar will bring you to great places". Don't just beautify your outer appearance. Beautify your mind as well. :)
2.) Tap, develop and share your talents.
One anime that I really love (Skip Beat) opened with "Before someone's born, God gives them a box. It will be unopened for a time. But there will come a time that that box will finally be unlocked." Those words send us a message that everyone HAS a talent. Yes, let me emphasize that. EVERYONE HAS A TALENT. Don't believe that you don't have one. Sometimes, it's just there in the corner waiting for you to tap it. Discover what your talents are. You could be good at singing, dancing, cooking, baby sitting, making people laugh or you have a genuinely caring heart. After discovering your talent, develop it. Practice, practice, practice. :)
The final step is to share it. This is where the real "wow" factor takes effect. When you share your talent, people will appreciate you. People will say "Dang, that person's not only smart but also talented." Sharing also means you teach other people how you tapped, discovered, and shared your talent. :)
3.) Be spontaneous and creative and fun.
I love that adjective! SPONTANEOUS. That means you can be prim and proper, fun, wacky, adventurous! For me, it's really a "Wow" if someone is fun and always ready for adventure. Although being prim and proper is important, you also need to sometimes let your hair loose, be relaxed, play like a kid, and never worry about poise. :). People will say "Wow, he/she is fun!" Have you seen Angel Locsin's Whisper (or was that Modess?) commercial? She went on a date with someone. Her date's car broke down. She smiled at him and said "Commute? Go!" Then they went walking, running and ended up eating fish ball. The guy said "wow, she's different!"
Be versatile. Be a lady. Be a gentleman. But don't forget to have fun. :)
4.) Live a good life.
When you take in good things, you will radiate good things. Don't settle on being "young, wild and free". Be different. Be good. Be kind to people. Be a true friend. Have some spiritual source in your life. Develop a good relationship with our Father in Heaven. Always choose to follow Him than to please your peers. :). Make good choices because they will definitely determine your future. When you are living a good life and you are choosing good choices, it will radiate in your aura and people will say "Wow, there's something different about him/her". And the bottom line? You're not only attracting people, you are also happy. :)
Even though physical beauty is important, always remember that deep beauty is more attractive. Having a deep reservoir of knowledge, talent, spontaneity, and goodness is definitely something that can make people say "WOW!" Now, isn't that quite a power? ;)
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